Others rely on the control of making their own fate in order to feel that they are dictating their own destiny.
Every person functions differently, yet it is my observation that human nature tends to try and rationalize every situation, large or small and find its' purpose and or solution.
What are we to do when there is no rational or explication for why we are dealt certain cards? This uncertainty is bound to cause conflicting thoughts.
Life may be unfair at times but usually has a way of all working out.
Just don't outsmart your common sense.